The Love Weapon
One of the things that never cease to amaze me is how one member of a couple will react to disagreement in the relationship through using their affection as a weapon against their partner. Some quiet time apart to think and cool down is one thing, but withholding love is quite another.
Once they become involved in an argument or severe disagreement one wants nothing to do with the other and that then extends beyond simply not speaking. Relationships are give and take and it is natural to have moments when you need space, but love for a partner or spouse, like your children should be unconditional.
When you withdraw your love and affection you send a real message to the other person that goes far beyond disagreement. Disagreement is a surface difference of opinion or thought. Love is a foundation emotion that has roots deep into the beliefs and needs makeup of the individual.
When you disagree or argue with someone you may bruise their feelings or ego, but the willingness and acceptance of love withdrawal as a viable method of dealing with the moment damages the relationship in a way that takes a while to get over.
Some people may never feel the same if this is your first best choice of action.
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