3 Wealthy Ways of Listening
One of the most revealing characteristics of wealthy people is how they listen. People who have learned to generate true wealth know how to listen three special ways.
- Acutely
- Intently
- With Resolve
They catch the fine details of what is being said and much of the unspoken language behind the actual words. This allows them to have a better grasp on accurate meaning rather than interpretation that was colored and contorted by desire and feeling.
They hold their focus on the moment and the speaker. It is not a pause while they think of the next thing to say, but a real effort to connect with the intentions and feelings of the person speaking.
Finally, they listen with resolution and effective completition as the goal. If the result is not what they desire their resolve goes over it again and again until the different decisions yield results close to the expected and desired goals.
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How Did This Happen
You’ve probably caught yourself at one time or another saying this to yourself. How did this happen? How did you chance to find yourself in this situation? The answer is one word.
Choice. You made the choices, the decisions that led you down this path to where you are right now. This is not a dead end, but rather just another place to stand in the shade of confusion for a moment as you debate your next direction.
As you continue along the path of life you will come to moments of clarity and moments when the haze and fog of indecision and confusion will descend upon you. The noise of chaos will distract you and you might even lose sight of your ultimate goals at times.
However, if you do what you need to do you will find yourself much further along in the end.
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Deciding What Type You Are
There comes a time when each teenager must make some choices on vocation and career. These should be made with your parents and possibly the guidance counselor at your school if possible. These are important moments that will define the quality of your future.
You will want to go down the path toward a vocational choice and career that allows you to use your natural talents and skills. This will help you live a much more productive and fulfilling life.
First take into account your personality. Are you internal and shy or outgoing and friendly? Do you work well with people or do you prefer to work with machinery and computers?
You might want to determine your personality type with a personality inventory such as the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator ( MBTI ) which is available online and can be completed in about thirty minutes or so. Your answers are evaluated and then an explanation of your personality type is sent to you. There are two forms:
- Personality Type is a basic version.
- Humanmetrics is the longer, more specific version.
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