Is Life Leaking Away
I came home yesterday from shopping to find the main well line into my home had split open and was spewing water out like a fountain in the downstairs. Of course, it just happened to be late afternoon and about five minutes after normal business hours for most of the local plumbers.
After some frantic calls I finally had the plumber headed my way so I tried to quell the water flow as best I could. During the event I realized how much the situation mirrors our living experience.
If we don’t keep our body, mind and lifestyle in proper condition we spring leaks and have mishaps. There are times when we must call on someone else, even an expert to help us repair the concern and establish normal flow again.
I realized my situation could have been much worse if I had not been aware of it or had ignored the warning of the sound of spraying water. Of course the clean-up chore was not the most pleasant experience, but it did allow me to clean-up areas that I had wanted to rearrange.
Is your life leaking away or have you paid attention to the fair warning signs and made the effort to repair the situation and establish good stable living flow?
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How Do I Make Life Better
There is one factor that is truly holding you back and making your life become a stagnant rut that offers no visible means of escape and yet it is so easy to change this condition in your living experience.
You are surrounded by stale energy.
In an effort to stabilize and balance their living moment’s people let things that don’t need to be changed sit still as they focus on the issues and challenges that demand their attention.
Eventually their entire living experience becomes governed by repetitive patterns and the staleness of dust, clutter and lack of change. Living with quality is change. Your bed is fresh and you keep your desk and vehicles clean and fresh.
Open the windows and let some fresh clean air in and get rid of the junk and stagnant clutter than is poisoning your living process.
Start with your bedroom and work your way out into your life. You will sleep better think clearer and live and happier and more satisfying lifestyle.
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Good Vibrations of Summer
One of the best things about the change of the season as spring rain turn into summer sun is the way it influences the human attitude. The renewal of the New Year and the spring effort blossoms forth into changes of thought, spirit and body.
Those who embrace a focus on the quality of the moment direct their living process and shape their life into satisfaction and fulfillment. Those who do not are destined to random results and a stressful living experience.
The thoughts that you hold in your mind influence your personality and the vibrations you give off to others.
Thoughts of stress, pressure, defeat and depression can be sensed by people in your expressions and attitude. Clean, calm defined thoughts give off vibrations of self-assurance and living quality.
Define the quality of your summer by giving off good vibrations.
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The Magic Words
During a recent visit with a family I met through a friend’s introduction I was caught in the center of a whirlwind of activity and loud children. As we sat in their living room their kids were running wild and rampant.
With three little sets of feet constantly encircling the coffee table it was almost impossible to carry on a normal conversation. Suddenly one child offended another and there was crying all around.
Little the parents did made even the slightest dent in the temper tantrums. They counted to five, threatened and scolded yet the display of displeasure continued.
After a few minutes I whispered a few words into the ear of the oldest child and her 8 year old tears subsided quickly.
She walked over and took her younger sisters by the hand and quietly led them off to play elsewhere. Oh, I could still hear a few snubs and moans as the pain eased, but the result was wonderful after 20 minutes of chaos.
Both parents stared at me with their shocked and disbelieving eyes and asked, “What did you say?”
Magic words! When I leaned over I simply whispered in her ear that I was making HER the teacher and her sisters were now HER students. Teachers don’t cry and they don’t let their students cry.
As soon as she believed that she was in charge she stopped crying and also helped her ( students ) stop too. I had replaced her discomfort with a focus on authority and responsibility using a game format that the child could easily understand.
These are the same factors that give you self-esteem and self-control as an adult.Take a close look at yourself.
Are you a crying child or a teacher leading others by the hand?
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Making the Grade
Does the living experience seem like an uphill struggle to you? Are you stuck in a rut from which there seems no escape? Here are seven ways to turn that all around.
- Plan your day.
- Stick to your plan.
- Avoid extreme emotions.
- Do things that need to be done.
- Constantly strive to improve yourself.
- Be honest with yourself and everyone else.
- Take a few minutes each day to rethink goals.
It’s amazing the percentage of the population that stumbles randomly through life dealing with issues as they arise instead of planning ahead. Then there are distractions and the times when you emotions get the better of you and you do or say something you shouldn’t have.
Finally, there is the pattern where you stop trying to improve yourself and set real goals and instead you become accepting of what and where you are in life.
Making yourself over involves improving and setting new fresh goals.
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