Performance Enhancement || Business Influence & Leadership || Family Unity || Parent & Child Communication || Personal Habit Patterns

How many people have you met and been friends with so far during your lifetime including the children you grew up with? Probably lots if you haven’t been a social hermit all your life.

How many are you still in active contact with? Most likely only a select few that are directly related to what you are doing right now.

Imagine how diverse your living experience would have been and how many new opportunities would have been available to you if you had only maintained fifty percent or more of your social contacts over the years.

I call this process of human interaction Life Webbing.

Look around you and you will see that people with erratic results and lots of living concerns live a very shallow lifestyle. Their social contacts are limited to a skim of family and immediate friends.

Those with wealth and a quality lifestyle have great depth in social contacts. They get invited to more events and functions and yield more social influence. They work at developing and maintaining a spider web of social interactions and cultivate ongoing friendships that last many years or even a lifetime.

The depth of your social contact list right now is probably a good indicator of your social influence and quality of living experience.

Each day focus on new fresh branches to your social contact web and be certain to REGULARLY circulate through your contacts and stay in touch.

Keep them listed alphabetically by period of contact. Some people you talk to every day and others by the week, month or on special holidays each year. The deeper and richer your web of social contacts the deeper your roots go into the substance of abundance and happiness.

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Want to have good rapport with people? The comfort of friendship and rapport simply makes it easier to connect and communicate with others. The power of personal influence is governed by this bond of rapport.

There are dozens of rapport building skills, but one that is almost universally accepted by people is the sincere compliment.

Even the total stranger feels a small bond of rapport with someone that has paid them a compliment that felt sincere. This is nothing more than a true heartfelt observation of the individual that yields a positive response.

I look for the good in each person I see and always try to compliment at least one person every day. This is especially true when I see some random act of kindness.

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When other people around you especially friends and family members experience accomplishment how loudly and openly do you celebrate and praise their achievements?

When they have poor results how quickly and often do you criticize?

It is natural for the individual to focus on their own desires, goals and successes or shortcomings. However, it takes true character to turn your attention to the goals and results of others.

To grow and develop influence with other people you must focus on what is important TO THEM.

When others get good results be their first and greatest supporter and you will be remembered for a long time as a true friend and ally. Criticize too often or loudly and you will be remembered by them and seen by others as a self-centered person of poor human quality.

Remember to praise loudly and criticize softly.

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