Living Skills For Human Excellence & Success | The Human Life Map | The Secret Path Of Life

As the evidence mounts and the timeline of events tightens the legal case against Casey Anthony seems to grow stronger. Even faced with long prison time Casey remains locked within her world of denial.

This is because she is deeply saturated in the three factors that define human existence and the decisions and direction of many.

Casey exhibited these three factors again and again during last summer. Her shopping spree with a close friend’s money revealed her desire for possession. She wants, therefore she gets. Often she would fulfill her desires in any way possible even if that meant begging, borrowing or stealing.

Her arguments with family and constant running to and from parties and gatherings were an exposure of how the desire for independence was driving her lifestyle and thoughts.

Finally, her actions and demeanor are prime examples of her strong desire to control herself, her surroundings and even the thoughts others have regarding the person she is and what she represents.

In her world it is far more important how you view her image and what you think of her than the reality of actuality. In her reasoning deception is but another tool used to shape the world into conformity with desires.

Casey Anthony is controlling. She controlled her lifestyle, fun and life direction along with her parents and eventually even the life span of her child. Only now is she suffering because she can no longer totally control her environment and freedom.

Is she sorry? Yes, but only because she has lost her total control and freedom.

Take a moment to ADVERTISE YOUR BUSINESS TODAY    

Over 2.6 million jobs were lost in 2008. During 2009 and beyond as business evolves from the economic change new industry will emerge and new jobs will be created.

The process of company restructure is cyclic especially when linked to economic downturn. During this process we all must suffer some and wait for the global markets to stabilize.

Think of the job market like real estate. Right now is a buyer’s market. The downturn in the economy has created a market for those with the money to capitalize on the low housing prices. Likewise, those with the ability to be at the job forefront right now will lead those getting back in during the future economic industry growth.

We must also keep a close eye on the financial markets as they settle from rampant spending and bailouts. Once companies stabilize there will be a rebirth of new industry to stimulate the economy.

During the rebuilding process new industry will signal the relief for many of the unemployed that cannot find income sources right now. Families that will need help in redesigning their living skills and career paths.

There are many who need professional direction right now to help them secure their family unity and financial position as they wait out the economic storm.

If you are in the unique position to help others during the downturn and rebuilding periods your business will thrive and grow too. It is important to realize that business and income are always available in the economy. You simply need to know where to look and have the proper skills to access and benefit from the demands and needs of the general population.

The most important factor is sincere help. If you are truly willing and are sincere in your efforts to help other people the benefit comes back to you many times over.

That is exactly why businesses that support the wellbeing of people flourish with success while the people out to make a quick dollar at someone else’s expense continue to struggle each day.

Position yourself to actually make a difference to help others and the rewards will come to you over time.

Take a moment to ADVERTISE YOUR BUSINESS TODAY     

What do you do when you see your child heading down the path of imbalanced reasoning and improper actions? Could Caylee Anthony have been saved by quicker or more decisive actions by her grandparents?

Probably not. The patterns of thought and personality that Casey Anthony exhibit are developed over time and they are difficult if not impossible to stem quickly. In fact, her personality type is most likely set.

The narcissistic personality that drives her needs is so strong that she cannot help herself. What seems abnormal to most people seems entirely normal to her. So strong that it overshadows the natural mothering process and causes her to look for ways to satisfy her own needs and desires to the exclusion of her child.

Don’t feel ill toward George and Cindy Anthony over their actions this past year. Any help from them would have and should have come long before while Casey was still developing her value structure and personality going back to early childhood.

They were confronted with a 22 year old young adult that was out of control. Unfortunately one of the major symptoms of such imbalance is that Casey would not be able to realize that she was thinking or acting in an imbalanced manner.

Notice I didn’t say abnormal. I want to emphasize that every thought and decision Casey made during this time period seemed entirely normal and reasonable to her.

This is precisely why some teens are so difficult to redirect. They base their thoughts and decisions on a limited number of years of living experience, less than 25, without realizing that living experience over the decades is where their true knowledge and living patterns come from.

Teens and young adults are often so engrossed in the drive for independence that they reject any interaction or advice from adults as an attempt to control and may react violently or pull away entirely.

Casey Anthony had all of these patterns. She rejected and reacted strongly to her parent’s advice and pulled away taking Caylee with her. She based her decisions and living patterns on poor peer influence, the desire to be independent and her narcissistic and histrionic personality motivations.

Chasing after Casey Anthony last summer would have most likely been a futile effort and only physically removing Caylee from her would have saved the child from the building potential for disaster.

Take a moment to ADVERTISE YOUR BUSINESS TODAY     

Want to read some truly shocking news about the Caylee Anthony case? The news just gets worse by the day. As if the mother potentially killing her daughter wasn’t bad enough this story should open some eyes.

First Caylee Anthony was the sweet little girl missing and searched for so desperately. Then she became the remains and victim of a horrible crime and now she exposes our society for what it has become.

Caylee Anthony is a story and a media happening. She is the victim of a terrible crime and now she has become bones in a funeral home awaiting a final burial service. If this were one of our children each person reading would be seeking privacy and closure.

Undoubtedly that is not so.

Is it possible even conceivable that someone would seek to profit from leaking the pictures of this little girl’s bones onto the internet or in the media? Is there a media outlet that would stand by their right to publish or televise those images?

If so, then Caylee Anthony is exposing our society for what it has become. Her case has been a lightning rod for poor human qualities, decisions and actions.

There were those that stooped to protest on the front lawn of her grandparents filling their day, wasting their precious living hours screaming at the side of a house on national television. Wild gesturing people filled with uncontrollable hatred and anger that should have been at home tending to their families and living experience.

There is a mother that seems to have destroyed her own child and then created a delusional world of deceit and confusion to avoid her responsibility and accountability.

Now there are the sensationalistic vultures that prey on pictures and stories to feed the perverted needs of those with little or no moral value willing to read or watch anything for the thrill.

We are supposed to be an ever advancing society and some of us are parents. It isn’t that we would publish such pictures, but more that any rational adult would even have the thought and intention to do so.

What have we become as a society? That there are those willing and eager to do such a thing and that there are others more than willing, even anxious to see such images.

People, please gather yourself and lift yourself above such poor human decision. Strive to improve your living quality and the overall quality of our society by rejecting such poor decision and action.

If the people want to truly make a difference they can. One by one we can all make this world a better place through improving our living skills.

Take a moment to ADVERTISE YOUR BUSINESS TODAY     

A mother loses her 3 year old daughter and cannot explain why or where then goes on partying with friends. The remains of the child are found only minutes from home as the grandparents continue to deny the results.

With all of the pain and disappointment of the Casey Anthony case what can people learn and take away for positive change in their families?

First, spend time with your children and get to know them well. As a parent it is vital that you have open communication with your children and be able to see any unusual changes in your child’s attitude or personality.

Direct through example and redirect through friendship not patronization. Children look to parents for their social and personal patterns and example. What are you representing each day to your children?

Discuss the relationship of quality values and living standards to success, happiness and fulfillment in the living experience with your children. Children cannot make associations well on their own due to a lack of living experience. Parents have a responsibility to define quality associations for children.

Be willing to step in and say no when the situation requires strong action and accountability. Don’t turn a blind eye and hope that the situation will resolve itself or that the child will find their way eventually.

Saying no means no and not maybe. From the time they are born children quickly learn to test parents for the firmness of their decisions. Wishy washy decisions when children are young set parents up for teens and young adults that don’t or won’t accept decisions as firm and final.

Love your child unconditionally and let them know that they can come to you with concerns without fear of rejection or punishment. Never ignore any issue that your child brings to you no matter how unimportant it seems to you.

Take a moment to ADVERTISE YOUR BUSINESS TODAY