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Each person is and always will be an individual. You were born as a mental process within a physical shell and you see the world from the center of your personal universe.

However, one of our most driving desires during the process of changing into adulthood is the natural need for affection and a mate. This person or partner provides the individual a way of cementing the substance and memories of living experiences through sharing those same moments.

One of the most difficult changes some people face is in giving up their individual patterns for the joint patterns required by a relationship. Depending on personality type some people may find it painful or almost impossible to evolve into a mutual need family related pattern of thought.

Some people are simply individuals to the core. They desire and initiate relationships, but most fade away or go sour after a short while because this person simply cannot seem to fully commit to the needs of the relationship.

If we are in a relationship my space must become your space. There is a pattern of trust and sharing that must go deeper than superficial words and intentions.

It is perfectly all right to pursue individual interests and needs, but the core of your focus should be on unity and quality of the relationship.

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One of the hot topics I get when I talk to groups of people is their desire to better understand what creates the process of growing apart and separation in relationships and marriage.

A major issue is the slow distancing caused by settling back into hidden comfort zone qualities and overactive schedules that include travel.

One partner lives on the telephone calling from distant locations as he or she pursues a career or the other partner is glued to a computer screen or television.

Partners grow close through daily interaction. This interaction doesn’t have the chance to grow and mature if one partner is always on the road plus there are the temptations of satisfying personal needs and desires.

A partner who lives through a video screen can be just as distant as someone a thousand miles away. Another factor is that people who regularly watch television shows begin to identify with the characters and social interactions of the program instead of their actual lifestyle and results.

They begin to expect the real world to mimic the program situations and may even adopt living patterns and make decisions based on these television program related thought patterns.

The foundation of a relationship is being together physically, mentally and emotionally.

People with busy schedules must make special efforts to strengthen their relationship bonds and those with media attachments must recognize and address the need to separate entertainment from life and the daily living experience.

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How many people have you met and been friends with so far during your lifetime including the children you grew up with? Probably lots if you haven’t been a social hermit all your life.

How many are you still in active contact with? Most likely only a select few that are directly related to what you are doing right now.

Imagine how diverse your living experience would have been and how many new opportunities would have been available to you if you had only maintained fifty percent or more of your social contacts over the years.

I call this process of human interaction Life Webbing.

Look around you and you will see that people with erratic results and lots of living concerns live a very shallow lifestyle. Their social contacts are limited to a skim of family and immediate friends.

Those with wealth and a quality lifestyle have great depth in social contacts. They get invited to more events and functions and yield more social influence. They work at developing and maintaining a spider web of social interactions and cultivate ongoing friendships that last many years or even a lifetime.

The depth of your social contact list right now is probably a good indicator of your social influence and quality of living experience.

Each day focus on new fresh branches to your social contact web and be certain to REGULARLY circulate through your contacts and stay in touch.

Keep them listed alphabetically by period of contact. Some people you talk to every day and others by the week, month or on special holidays each year. The deeper and richer your web of social contacts the deeper your roots go into the substance of abundance and happiness.

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